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What is Codependency?

WHAT IS CODEPENDENCY?

Codependency is a learned emotional and behavioral condition marked by imbalanced relationships, where one person takes on a self-sacrificing “giver” role and the other a dependent “taker” role. Often called “relationship addiction,” it commonly affects family members, spouses, or friends, especially in situations involving substance abuse or mental health issues. The giver drains their resources trying to fix the other’s problems, while the taker may feel guilty and overly compliant. People in codependent relationships often have low self-esteem, seek external validation, and struggle with authenticity, masking their own issues by focusing on others.

CORE ISSUES IN CODEPENDENT RELATIONSHIPS

In codependent relationships, the enabler’s repeated caretaking and rescuing—though often well-intentioned—allows the dependent individual to continue destructive behaviors, making them increasingly unstable and reliant. This dynamic fosters compulsive and controlling behavior from the caretaker and deepens the emotional dysfunction. Codependent individuals often lose their sense of self, molding their identity around pleasing others while neglecting their own needs. Common traits include a lack of personal boundaries, fear of abandonment, poor communication, constant anxiety, guilt for expressing needs, and a deep need for approval, often remaining in harmful relationships despite emotional pain.

Core Issues in Codependent Relationships

CAUSES OF CODEPENDENCY

According to Medical News Today, codependency is a learned behavior often rooted in past emotional difficulties and dysfunctional relationship patterns, particularly during childhood. It commonly stems from damaging parental relationships where children were made to feel their needs were unimportant or selfish, especially if a parent struggled with addiction, mental health issues, or emotional immaturity. As a result, these individuals learn to suppress their own needs and prioritize others’. Additionally, those who have experienced physical, emotional, or sexual abuse may develop codependent tendencies as a defense mechanism or may gravitate toward familiar, unhealthy relationship dynamics in adulthood.

TREATMENT FOR CODEPENDENCY

The goal of treating codependency is to help individuals build healthy, functional relationships by first encouraging separation from the dysfunctional dynamic and establishing a supportive environment for growth. Therapy—both individual and group—can be crucial, as professionals assist clients in expressing buried emotions, identifying harmful patterns, and developing healthier coping skills through approaches like CBT and DBT. For those with co-occurring substance use disorders, dual diagnosis treatment is recommended. Family or couples counseling may also aid in healing relationship systems. Though facing past trauma can be difficult, the reward is the ability to form respectful, honest, and loving relationships grounded in trust, boundaries, and self-worth.

Treatment for Codependency

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